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Tempting Series Cover Reveal
Synopsis: Tempting Amazon Erotic Best Seller His body climbing over mine. My teeth biting his neck. His scent on my skin. My nails carving a path down his back. His commands whispered in my ear. All of my senses filled with him. I knew it was bad. But I craved more. It had begun… Continue reading
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Open Letter to Prospective Birthmother
Hey there love, I know things right now are scary. I’ve been in your shoes. I know how you feel. You’re afraid of judgement on your situation. You’re afraid your child will grow up and hate you for placing them. You might be afraid that the adoptive parents will break their promises down the road.… Continue reading
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Talking
This is actually an entry in my journal from today: My mood seems to be kind of all over the place lately. I go back to my psych on Friday, and I’m thinking we may need to up my Zoloft from 50mg to 75mg. It’ll really be up to her though, even though she really does… Continue reading
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#AdoptionTalk – Navigating Open Adoption & My Feelings
It’s never an easy thing to navigate through open adoption, especially if it’s the first time for all involved. My birth daughter’s adoptive parents and I are currently navigating our open adoption. We are always re-evaluating things as she grows up. For example, our visits for the first two years were lunches in restaurants.… Continue reading
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Brain Dump
There’s so much going on right now. Dad’s back to work this week after his knee surgery Jan 23. I’m trying to form some kind of sleep schedule, but it’s not really working terribly well. I’ve been running errands all over the place since dad’s surgery. Two of my favorite shows are now back on… Continue reading
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Depression
I feel like I don’t have the right to complain that I’m tired. I haven’t even been awake for five and a half hours yet. I’ve done nothing that would make me tired. It’s just my depression that’s causing this. And I feel like that’s not a good enough reason to allow me to complain.… Continue reading
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Blog Tour: ILLUSION OF ECSTASY by Nicole Loufas
Synopsis: When Dani discovered the cash hidden in her attic, she had no idea the problems it would bring. With the help of the Marino’s, Dani is able to launder her father’s dirty money, but their help comes with a price. Her relationship with Matt. Not wanting to hurt Dani’s future or freedom, Matt removes… Continue reading
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Dreams, Sparks, & Tornados
I struggle to concisely express the emotions I feel more often than not recently. The be frank, I haven’t even tried because I’ve been too busy trying to process what’s happening inside my head. I dream of things that I know won’t happen. I hold onto sparks of ideas that are possible. I feels like… Continue reading
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Just One More Minute (NaBloPoMo – Day 22)
review a book you’ve read this month Unfortunately, life has gotten kinda crazy for me, and I haven’t had a chance to finish this book, but I’m 80% through it and hopefully will finish tomorrow. **scroll to bottom of post for review** (COMING SOON) Anyway, Just One More Minute by Elizabeth Barone released this past Friday… Continue reading
About Me

Hello! Welcome! My name is Katy!
You can find me drinking coffee until it’s time for wine. Currently have 5 tattoos, but plans for more are in the works.
I’m a birthmom over 8 years post placement. I’ve been in a birthmom support group since November 2018, and will be leading my own come May 2023.
On Sunday mornings you can usually find me in the nursery or on the production team at church.
Various times throughout the year, you can find me staying with someone’s dog(s) while they’re away on a trip – so don’t be surprised if there are stories or pictures every so often.