blogging
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Open Letter to Prospective Birthmother
Hey there love, I know things right now are scary. I’ve been in your shoes. I know how you feel. You’re afraid of judgement on your situation. You’re afraid your child will grow up and hate you for placing them. You might be afraid that the adoptive parents will break their promises down the road.… Continue reading
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Talking
This is actually an entry in my journal from today: My mood seems to be kind of all over the place lately. I go back to my psych on Friday, and I’m thinking we may need to up my Zoloft from 50mg to 75mg. It’ll really be up to her though, even though she really does… Continue reading
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Brain Dump
There’s so much going on right now. Dad’s back to work this week after his knee surgery Jan 23. I’m trying to form some kind of sleep schedule, but it’s not really working terribly well. I’ve been running errands all over the place since dad’s surgery. Two of my favorite shows are now back on… Continue reading
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NaBloPoMo – Day 29
List out your nightly or morning routine Not everything is done every night, and they’re in no particular order: read write set up my bujo for the next day brush teeth take makeup off wash face put on moisturizer scroll through social media Netflix put in night guard Continue reading
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NaBloPoMo – Day 11
stream of consciousness The things that are most likely going to happen in this country under the rule of President Elect Donald Trump are truly scary to think about… The things that he intends to do to women’s healthcare, the LGBTQIA+ community, immigrants, and Muslims, just to name a few have so many people afraid for their… Continue reading
About Me

Hello! Welcome! My name is Katy!
You can find me drinking coffee until it’s time for wine. Currently have 5 tattoos, but plans for more are in the works.
I’m a birthmom over 8 years post placement. I’ve been in a birthmom support group since November 2018, and will be leading my own come May 2023.
On Sunday mornings you can usually find me in the nursery or on the production team at church.
Various times throughout the year, you can find me staying with someone’s dog(s) while they’re away on a trip – so don’t be surprised if there are stories or pictures every so often.